Who is an addict?
Most of us do not have to think twice about this question. We know!
Our whole life and thinking was centered in drugs in one form or
another—the getting and using and finding ways and means to get more. We lived
to use and used to live. Very simply, an addict is a man or woman whose life is
controlled by drugs. We are people in the grip of a continuing and progressive
illness whose ends are always the same: jails, institutions, and death.
Why are we here?
Before coming to the Fellowship of NA, we could not
manage our own lives. We could not live and enjoy life as other people do. We
had to have something different and we thought we had found it in drugs. We
placed their use ahead of the welfare of our families, our wives, husbands, and
our children. We had to have drugs at all costs. We did many people great harm,
but most of all we harmed ourselves. Through our inability to accept personal
responsibilities we were actually creating our own problems. We seemed to be
incapable of facing life on its own terms.
Most of us realized that in our addiction we were slowly
committing suicide, but addiction is such a cunning enemy of life that we had
lost the power to do anything about it. Many of us ended up in jail, or sought
help through medicine, religion, and psychiatry. None of these methods was
sufficient for us. Our disease always resurfaced or continued to progress until,
in desperation, we sought help from each other in Narcotics Anonymous.
After coming to NA we realized we were sick people. We suffered
from a disease from which there is no known cure. It can, however, be arrested
at some point, and recovery is then possible.
What is the Narcotics Anonymous program?
NA is a nonprofit fellowship or society of men and women
for whom drugs had become a major problem. We are recovering addicts who meet
regularly to help each other stay clean. This is a program of complete
abstinence from all drugs. There is only one requirement for membership, the
desire to stop using. We suggest that you keep an open mind and give yourself a
break. Our program is a set of principles written so simply that we can follow
them in our daily lives. The most important thing about them is that they work.
There are no strings attached to NA. We are not affiliated with
any other organizations, we have no initiation fees or dues, no pledges to sign,
no promises to make to anyone. We are not connected with any political,
religious, or law enforcement groups, and are under no surveillance at any time.
Anyone may join us, regardless of age, race, sexual identity, creed, religion,
or lack of religion.
We are not interested in what or how much you used or who your
connections were, what you have done in the past, how much or how little you
have, but only in what you want to do about your problem and how we can help.
The newcomer is the most important person at any meeting, because we can only
keep what we have by giving it away. We have learned from our group experience
that those who keep coming to our meetings regularly stay clean.
How it works
If you want what we have to offer, and are willing to
make the effort to get it, then you are ready to take certain steps. These are
the principles that made our recovery possible.
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We admitted that we were powerless over our addiction, that
our lives had become unmanageable.
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We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could
restore us to sanity.
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We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to
the care of God as we understood Him.
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We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of
ourselves.
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We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being
the exact nature of our wrongs.
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We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects
of character.
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We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
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We made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became
willing to make amends to them all.
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We made direct amends to such people wherever possible,
except when to do so would injure them or others.
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We continued to take personal inventory and when we were
wrong promptly admitted it.
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We sought through prayer and meditation to improve our
conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for
knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
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Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps,
we tried to carry this message to addicts, and to practice these principles
in all our affairs.
This sounds like a big order, and we can’t do it all at once.
We didn’t become addicted in one day, so remember—easy does it.
There is one thing more than anything else that will defeat us
in our recovery; this is an attitude of indifference or intolerance toward
spiritual principles. Three of these that are indispensable are honesty,
open-mindedness, and willingness. With these we are well on our way.
We feel that our approach to the disease of addiction is
completely realistic, for the therapeutic value of one addict helping another is
without parallel. We feel that our way is practical, for one addict can best
understand and help another addict. We believe that the sooner we face our
problems within our society, in everyday living, just that much faster do we
become acceptable, responsible, and productive members of that society.
The only way to keep from returning to active addiction is not
to take that first drug. If you are like us you know that one is too many and a
thousand never enough. We put great emphasis on this, for we know that when we
use drugs in any form, or substitute one for another, we release our addiction
all over again.
Thinking of alcohol as different from other drugs has caused a
great many addicts to relapse. Before we came to NA, many of us viewed alcohol
separately, but we cannot afford to be confused about this. Alcohol is a drug.
We are people with the disease of addiction who must abstain from all drugs in
order to recover.
The Twelve Traditions of NA
We keep what we have only with vigilance, and just as freedom for the
individual comes from the Twelve Steps, so freedom for the group springs from
our traditions.
As long as the ties that bind us together are stronger than
those that would tear us apart, all will be well.
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Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery
depends on NA unity.
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For our group purpose there is but one ultimate
authority—a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience.
Our leaders are but trusted servants, they do not govern.
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The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop
using.
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Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting
other groups or NA as a whole.
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Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry the
message to the addict who still suffers.
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An NA group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the NA
name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, or prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
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Every NA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining
outside contributions.
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Narcotics Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional,
but our service centers may employ special workers.
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NA, as such, ought never be organized, but we may create
service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.
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Narcotics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence
the NA name ought never be drawn into public controversy.
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Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather
than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of
press, radio, and films.
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Anonymity is the spiritual
foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles
before personalities.
Understanding
these Traditions comes slowly over a period of time. We pick up
information as we talk to members and visit various groups. It usually
isn’t until we get involved with service that someone points out that
“personal recovery depends on N.A. unity,” and that unity depends on how
well we follow our Traditions. The Twelve Traditions of N.A. are not
negotiable. They are the guidelines that keep our Fellowship alive and
free.
By following these guidelines in our
dealings with others, and society at large, we avoid many problems. That
is not to say that our Traditions eliminate all problems. We still have to
face difficulties as they arise: communication problems, differences of
opinion, internal controversies, and troubles with individuals and groups
outside the Fellowship. However, when we apply these principles, we avoid
some of the pitfalls.
Many of our problems are like those
that our predecessors had to face. Their hard won experience gave birth to
the Traditions, and our own experience has shown that these principles are just
as valid today as they were when these Traditions were formulated. Our
Traditions protect us from the internal and external forces that could destroy
us. They are truly the ties that bind us together. It is only
through understanding and application that they work.
Just
for Today
Tell
yourself:
JUST
FOR TODAY my thoughts will be on my recovery, living and enjoying life without
the use of drugs.
JUST
FOR TODAY I will have faith in someone in N.A. who believes in me and wants to
help me in my recovery.
JUST
FOR TODAY I will have a program. I will try to follow it to the best of my
ability.
JUST
FOR TODAY through N.A. I will try to get a better perspective on my life.
JUST
FOR TODAY I will be unafraid, my thoughts will be on my new associations, people
who are not using and who have found a new way of life. So long as I
follow that way, I have nothing to fear.
We Do
Recover
When
at the end of the road we find that we can no longer function as a human being,
either with or without drugs, we all face the same dilemma. What is there left
to do? There seems to be this alternative: either go on as best we can to the
bitter ends—jails, institutions or death—or find a new way to live. In years
gone by, very few addicts ever had this last choice. Those who are addicted
today are more fortunate. For the first time in man’s entire history, a simple
way has been proving itself in the lives of many addicts. It is available to us
all. This is a simple spiritual—not religious—program, known as Narcotics
Anonymous.