This pamphlet was written to answer
some of your questions concerning the program of Narcotics Anonymous. Our
message is very simple: We have found a way to live without using drugs,
and we are happy to share it with anyone for whom drugs are a problem.
Welcome to Narcotics Anonymous
Welcome
to your first NA meeting. NA offers addicts a way to live drug-free. If
you are not sure you’re an addict, don’t worry about it; just keep
coming to our meetings. You will have all the time you need to make up
your own mind.
If you are like
many of us when we attended our first NA meeting, you may be feeling
pretty nervous and think that everyone at the meeting is focusing on you.
If so, you are not the only one. Many of us have felt the same way. It has
been said, “If your stomach’s all tied up in knots, you’re probably
in the right place.” We often say that no one comes through the doors of
NA by mistake. Nonaddicted people don’t spend their time wondering if
they’re addicts. They don’t even think about it. If you’re wondering
whether or not you’re an addict, you might be one. Just allow yourself
the time to listen to us share about what it has been like for us. Perhaps
you will hear something that sounds familiar to you. It doesn’t matter
whether or not you have used the same drugs others mention. It is not
important which drugs you used; you’re welcome here if you want to stop
using. Most addicts experience very similar feelings, and it is in
focusing on our similarities, rather than our differences, that we are
helpful to one another.
You may be
feeling hopeless and afraid. You may think that this program, like other
things you have tried, will not work. Or you may think that it will work
for someone else but not for you because you feel you are different than
us. Most of us felt like that when we first came to NA. Somehow we knew
that we couldn’t go on using drugs, but we didn’t know how to stop or
stay clean. We were all afraid to let go of something that had become so
important to us. It is a relief to discover that the only requirement for
membership in NA is a desire to stop using.
At first, most
of us were mistrustful and fearful of trying a new way of doing things.
About the only thing we were sure of was that our old ways were not
working at all. Even after getting clean, things didn’t change right
away. Often, even our usual activities, such as driving a car or using the
telephone, seemed frightening and strange, as if we had become someone we
didn’t recognize. This is where the fellowship and support of other
clean addicts really helps, and we begin to rely on others for the
reassurance we so desperately need.
You may already
be thinking: “Yes, but” or “What if?” However, even if you have
doubts, you can use these simple suggestions for starters: Attend as many
NA meetings as you can and collect a list of NA phone numbers to use
regularly, especially when the urge for drugs is strong. The temptation is
not restricted to the days and hours where meetings occur. We are clean
today because we reached out for help. What helped us can help you. So
don’t be afraid to call another recovering addict.
The only way to
keep from returning to active addiction is not to take that first drug.
The most natural thing for an addict to do is to use drugs. In order for
most of us to abstain from using mood-altering, mind-changing chemicals,
we have had to undergo drastic changes physically, mentally, emotionally,
and spiritually. The Twelve Steps of NA offer us a way to change. As
someone said: “You can probably get clean by just coming to meetings.
However, if you want to stay clean and experience recovery, you will need
to practice the Twelve Steps.” This is more than we can do alone. In the
NA Fellowship, we support one another in our efforts to learn and practice
a new way of living that keeps us healthy and drug-free.
At your first
meeting, you will meet people with various lengths of clean time. You may
wonder how they could remain clean for that period of time. If you keep
coming to NA meetings and stay clean, you will come to understand how it
works. There is a mutual respect and caring among clean addicts because
we’ve all had to overcome the misery of addiction. We love and support
each other in our recovery. The program of NA is comprised of spiritual
principles that we have found help us to remain clean. Nothing will be
demanded of you, but you will receive many suggestions. This fellowship
provides the opportunity for us to give you what we have found: a clean
way of living. We know that we have to “give it away in order to keep
it.”
So, welcome! We
are glad that you have made it here, and hope that you decide to stay. It
is important for you to know that you will hear God mentioned at NA
meetings. What we are referring to is a Power greater than ourselves that
makes possible what seems impossible. We found that Power here, in NA, in
the program, in the meetings, and in the people. This is the spiritual
principle that has worked for us to live drug-free a day at a time; and
whenever a day is too long, then five minutes at a time. We can do
together what we could not do alone. We invite you to use our strength and
our hope until you have found some of your own. There will come a time
when you too may want to share with someone else what has been freely
given to you.
KEEP
COMING BACK—IT WORKS!